Transformational Book Series – Our Picks | Goals: How to Get Everything You Want Faster Than You Ever Thought Possible

We are kicking off a new MBB series titled Transformational Book Series – Our Picks. Not only have these books transformed our lives individually but they have helped to transform us professionally here at My Blooming Biz International. As this is the start of the year, we find it very fitting to kickoff our series with a well-written book about goals and goal setting by best selling author and motivational speaker Brian Tracy titled Goals: How to Get Everything You Want Faster Than You Ever Thought Possible.

Goal setting is an integral part of anyone accomplishing anything. In fact, if you do not have a goal there is nothing to move towards, and if there is nothing to move towards, you cannot strategize on how to get there and all your movements will be aimless. And so as we begin this new year, many of us look back at the goals that were set and accomplished the past year and the goals that were not accomplished, and move to either accomplish those goals in this new year or set new goals completely. So it is with this in mind that we have chosen to begin our series with this well written book about goals.

If you’ve been with us here at MBB for a while, you already know the importance of setting and implementing SMART goals. But what Brian has done in this book is to delve into the intricacies of not only setting those goals but setting up strategies and approaches that will ensure you follow through.

The goal setting process also include identifying the things and tools that will be needed in order for set goals to be accomplished. It is a comprehensive approach designed to ensure you complete your journey from visualization through actualization to materialization. Brian presents the essential principles you need to know to make your dreams come true.

Using the twenty-one strategies Brian outlines, you’ll be able to accomplish any goals you set for yourself — no matter how big. You’ll discover how to determine your own strengths, what you truly value in life, and what you really want to accomplish in the years ahead. Brian demonstrates how to build your self-esteem and self-confidence, approach every problem or obstacle effectively, overcome difficulties, respond to challenges, and continue forward toward your goals – no matter what happens. Most importantly, you’ll learn a system for achievement that you will use for the rest of your life.

Get this Goals: How to Get Everything You Want Faster Than You Ever Thought Possible, read it, and use the strategies to refine your goals as well as your approach to accomplishing them.

With love, gratitude, and empowered attitude,

My Blooming Biz International

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How to Effectively Manage Your Time So You Don’t Get Caught In a SPINN Cycle

We all wish that there was more time in the day, right?   When the day is over and we look back at what we have accomplished, oftentimes we wonder “where did all of those hours go?”   You go to sleep unfinished with the day because things you needed to get done were not done, and you wake up the next day with the mindset to finish those things but at the end of the day there were still things not done, that needed to be done. If you’re like most people in the world, then time management may be an issue. We’re all just a little bit crunched for time. We say things like “There’s not enough time in the day” or, “I don’t know where I’ll find the time” or “I never have time for myself.” But there is a better way! There is a way to escape the SPINN cycle, and command your time. There is a way to manage your time so you get those important things that are pivotal to the success of your big goal done AND spend quality time with yourself and family. That is what effective time management can and will do if you employ it. Yes, effective time management is a skill that so many desire but so few have, but this skill can be learned, and you can do it.

So, how do you go about instituting effective time management?

Get Organized

Time management begins with organization! It’s not this elusive form of Black Magic that so few understand. In fact, anyone can efficiently manage their time as long as they get organized first. Without organization, it’s difficult to see just what needs to be accomplished, when it needs to be accomplished by, how it will be accomplished – step by step, and how important each of those things are to accomplishing your long-term goal. When you get organized with your time, you not only increase your ability to manage your daily tasks effectively, but you also increase the likelihood of putting time where it really counts: towards those long-term goals that are very meaningful and paramount to you.

Have a Plan

Being aimless is detrimental to getting anywhere! If you are not working at achieving anything, then you do not need to manage your time, do you? There has to be some vision you are working at, that’s worthwhile to you. When you have a plan, and you document it, then and only then can you set a clear path and move forward to realizing the end result of that plan. When you have a goal that is significant to you, you will ensure you direct your time to helping you accomplish those goals. Effective time management will be that skill that ensure you follow through with your important plan.

Set Clear (SMART) Goals

An absolute must – prior to being able to manage your time effectively, is to set clear goals on what you want in life and ensure they are SMART. If you’ve never done any goal setting in the past, now is the time to get started because it’s an absolute must-have prerequisite to effective time management. You might think to yourself that you already know what you want, even if you haven’t written your goals down on paper; if this is the case, then you’re very wrong. Why? Because setting clear goals down on paper is remarkably different than merely having them in your mind. If you engage in passive goal setting, then you’re less likely to have a good handle on your time management. You need to have a literal visual of your goals! Instead of having your goals in your subconscious, you need to make them become visceral and to your consciousness – every day.

Actively set your goals by deciding exactly what you want, when you want it by, and why you want it. You have to be absolutely precise here when doing this. Don’t be afraid to write out exactly what it is, down to the very last detail that you want. Don’t just say you want a lot of money, say the exact amount of money you want, what specific date you want it by, and why you want it. This is the best way to ensure you achieve your goals in life.

Prioritize Your Time

In Stephen R. Covey’s book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, he discussed a system for managing time that was originally introduced by Dwight D. Eisenhower. This system splits up activities into 4 quadrants based on two factors: urgency and importance.

So, in your day, a task can be categorized by these two factors and be placed in one of the four quadrants which are:

Quadrant 1 – Emergencies & Crises: Urgent and Important

Quadrant 2 – Long-Term Goals: Not Urgent but Important

Quadrant 3 – Interruptions: Urgent but Not Important

Quadrant 4 – Distractions: Not Urgent and Not Important

How to Effectively Manage Your Time So You Don't Get Caught in a SPINN Cycle  - Time Management Matrix - My Blooming Biz

When you look at your list of milestones and daily tasks, you can categorize what area each of them falls under, and the best way to effectively institute this method is to spend a week first tracking everything that you do. Where do you spend your time? Jot it down. If you spent 30 minutes making phone calls to delinquent customers, jot that down. If you spent 2 hours at the grocery store, jot it down. At the end of each day for that first week, write the quadrant down next to each task for what it fell under. How much of your time did you spend watching television (Quadrant 4), or working on your long-term goals (Quadrant 2), or dealing with emergencies or crises in your life (Quadrant 1), and so on.

After the first week, look at how much time you spent in each quadrant. The goal in life is to spend as much time in Quadrant 2 and little to no time in Quadrant 4. How much time did you actually spend in Quadrant 2? After you’ve completed this exercise, take your daily list of tasks and jot down the quadrant each of them falls under. If you watched television for 3 hours, then you lived in the dismal Quadrant 4 that day. You want to spend as little time with Quadrant 4 activities as you can if you want to effectively manage your time. Sometimes we can’t see just how much time we’re wasting unless we look at it in this manner.

Eliminate Procrastination

One of the hardest part of time management is the dreaded procrastination that tends to rear its ugly head all too often. We can set all the goals that we would like, get organized, devise our plan, and prioritize our time, but if we can’t follow through with our list of things to do each day then we’re wasting our time.

Procrastination has been termed the silent killer of success, and it’s one of the biggest deterrents to our goals. We all say that we want to accomplish something, but when it comes down to managing our time with some sense of efficiency, we can’t seem to get things accomplished. Procrastination seems to be lurking on every single corner. So how do we avoid procrastination? We can start by being conscious of our actions and recognizing when procrastination is creeping in, and instituting some discipline. We can then move on to the 7 ways to stop procrastination in its track so you can ensure you accomplish our goals.

Stick to Your Plan

In order to effectively manage your time so you do not get caught in a SPINN cycle, you must stick to your plan. You must follow the path you have carved to get to the goals you have set, and ultimately be successful in your endeavors. A man without a plan is like a ship without sail, and a man with a plan who is not working the plan is like a ship with sail but no captain.

The SPINN Cycle is not innovative, it’s not progressive, it’s not directed. Get your goals, dreams, and aspirations in motion and enlist effective time management to get you through to full materialization.

See how our Founder & CEO Eugénie Nugent is effectively managing her time in her book collaboration, “Unlock Your Unstoppable: Balancing Life, Love, and Longevity”.

With love, gratitude, and empowered attitude,

My Blooming Biz International

8 Characteristics That Separate a Woman from a Girl

8 Characteristics That Separate a Woman From a Girl

The transition from girlhood to becoming a woman doesn’t happen automatically or overnight; experiences, relationships, and challenges faced along the way shape each of us into unique individuals, and all of these factors help fashion a girl into a woman. While most females learn and grow on this journey, others do not. How a girl responds to the adversity along the way will determine if she matures or gets lost in an arrested development. Some females learn from their mistakes, seek wisdom from older adults, and take the challenges that come at them head on, but others do not.

In society today, age is often used as a marker for determining if a female is a girl or a woman, with that “standard” age being different around the world. However, we know that age does not equate to a girl suddenly being a woman simply by reaching that age set by society.

Here are 8 Characteristics that Differentiate a Woman from a Girl

 

1. They Know What They Want

Females who are truly women have a clear vision of what they want for their future. They know what they want in a partner, career, and life in general. For instance, women pursue a relationship with a man instead of chasing after dates with boys. Women stay the course in pursuit of their goals and dreams; girls often give up when the going gets tough.

2. They Are Decisive

Because women have a better idea of what they want, they tend to make decisions easier and more decisively. They go after career opportunities that interest them and are willing to commit to a partner. They aren’t afraid to make a decision because they have a clear idea of who they are and what they want.

3. They Plan Their Future

Women think long term—about their relationships, career, finances, living situation and more. They aren’t just winging it. Sure, they may not have it all figured out, but they have a good idea of where they want their life to go in the next five or ten years and they are laying the foundation to get there. On the other hand, girls who are yet to become women don’t have these plans and live moment to moment.

4. They Take Responsibility

Women have a lot of pressure on them – always, and let’s face it, we don’t always get it right. Being a woman means owning up to your mistakes and taking responsibility for your actions – even if you are in the wrong. Girls, however, tend to make excuses rather than take responsibility.

5. They Think About the Kind of Woman They Are Be-ing

Women reflect on their values and morals, what kind of person they are be-ing, and are always becoming. This includes what kind of partner, father, employee and friend they are and how that matches what they want. Women have put thought into their values and lead lives that reflect them. They mindfully use their time and do not allow others to mindlessly use it. Girls aren’t sure about their moral compass just yet and don’t steer their life with such intention. They allow others to mindlessly use their time without any thought about how they themselves – could mindfully use it.

6. They Practice Integrity

Women have integrity! They say what they mean, they show up when they said they would, and they follow through on their promises. Girls, on the other hand, who haven’t yet become women, are capricious and don’t always follow through – or even make the effort to always follow through.

7. They Are Emotionally Intelligent

Women are aware of their surroundings and environments, and know that it influences people in different ways. As such, women are equipped to stave off unwanted direction of anger towards them, that they know they have not warranted. They are in control of their emotions and know how to deter someone’s emotion – that is being projected onto them, from influencing their response or action. They avoid cattiness, and quickly steer disparaging and downward spiraling conversations to an upward more civil engagement – without causing obvious obstruction or further chaos to the process of the matter at hand.

As a woman, you try to talk it through instead of shutting down and using the “silent treatment” and also listen to hear instead of listen to respond. A woman takes time out to study her partner, and knows when to give him space without thinking it is all about her, and ensure he knows she is available should he need to talk. Girls do the opposite. They are unaware. They think mostly of themselves. They start drama and quickly escalate conversations into putrid arguments.

8. They Understand What it Means to Pursue Love

Women may be fearful of rejection, but they will still initiate conversation with a man, knowing that the reward can be greater than the risk. They understand what it takes to seek out and go after what they want, and they muster the courage to do so. Girls wait for opportunity to find them, and are often unprepared when it does come – often leading to an end – right after the beginning.

So, two females can wear the same clothing, go to the same job, and even date the same man; on the outside, they may look similar, but after taking a closer look, it can become clear that only one is really a woman, while the other is still functioning as a girl.

Disclaimer: Nothing wrong with being a girl! If you are a girl, enjoy every minute of being a girl. But there comes a time when you have to put away girlish things, and embody womanhood.

What other characteristic(s) can you add that separates a woman from a girl? Do tell in the comment section below .

With love, gratitude, and empowered attitude,

My Blooming Biz International

4 Reasons You Should Commit to Personal Growth & Development

4 Reasons You Should Commit to Personal Growth & Development

Personal growth and development as the name suggests, is the way you improve and evolve in your personal life. Growth by nature is an evolving process. It is not something static that we can ‘master’ once and for all. We are constantly changing, constantly evolving, and so we need to learn how to channel this change, and move skillfully with it so that it can be guided to reward us with the things that we seek.

There are many techniques for personal growth, such as creative visualization, repeating affirmations, developing a positive mindset, and meditation. Personal growth also involves counseling, coaching, and reading. You can commit to personal growth in 4 of the 5 ALLY’s – spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. Physical personal growth is not the same as growing old. We all grow in age physically, and this is automatic. Nothing we can do about it! But physical personal growth is about improving your physical to better reflect your target goal, for example losing the extra weight, and you can do this by exercising regularly and eating more healthy nutritious foods. The fifth Ally which is financially, will be greatly improved as a result of the development of the prerequisites – spiritual, mental, emotional, physical growth.

Personal growth can help you in all areas of your life. It can help improve your relationship with your spouse, children, family members, friends. It can help you at work. It can change your attitude towards work and therefore open new opportunities for advancement, and it can help you to have better business deals and make better decisions. Personal growth is a necessity! Without commitment to personal growth, you will remain stuck in the same position, situation for years to come which is a recipe for depression, anxiety, and unhappiness. And if these are not enough reasons to commit to personal growth and development, here are 4 additional reasons:

4 Reasons You Should Commit to Personal Growth & Development

1. Personal Growth Helps You to Discover Your Purpose

Your purpose help to give your life and goals meaning. When you commit to learning, you will discover your strengths, improve your skills, and find ways to make you happy. For example, you may discover you feel invigorated teaching others. With this in mind, you can find or create opportunities to express your purpose, whether it is teaching a lunchtime workshop at your office, an online workshop, or coordinating a new youth program within your community.

2. Personal Growth Helps You Gain Clarity & Focus

It is easy to feel adrift, especially if you are unhappy or frustrated with certain areas of your life. For example, if you are burdened by debt, you may lose sight of your goal to get out of debt. Commitment to learning helps you focus on the things you need to do to achieve your goals. If your goal is to get your financial house in order, focus your growth on resources that help you get out of debt and improve your financial security.

3. Personal Growth Helps You Become More Resilient

Life can change in an instant, and the more resilient you are, the faster you will be able to recover from challenges or setbacks you face. When life throws you a curve ball, a commitment to learning will help you deal with it effectively and even grow from it, because you will have developed confidence in your skills and expertise. You will feel empowered and in control over your actions and decisions.

4. Personal Growth Improves Your Attitude

Studies have shown that the more optimistic you are, the more successful you will be. Why? Because optimistic people feel their actions and habits will impact their success and as such continually seek out ways to keep them engaged in their interests, while aligning themselves with people and things that aid their efforts. Their sunny dispositions make them feel more in control of their lives, and the results they get from their pursuit will continue to have a positive effect on their body, mind, and spirit. Since they tend to be happier than their more negative peers, people like them and are drawn to them, and want to see them succeed.

What are some of the ways you invest in yourself? Do share with us in the comment section below.

With love, gratitude, and empowered attitude,

My Blooming Biz International

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5 Ways to Tap Into The Power of Your Thoughts and Channel It To Serve You

5 Ways to Tap into the Power of Your Thoughts and Channel it to Serve You

Thoughts are powerful! And they become our actions! The very thoughts that are circulating through your psyche can help to manifest the life of your dreams, or deter you from pursuing your dreams because of fear. But most people don’t realize the inherent power of their thoughts. We go about our lives infused in one mindset or another, without the clear realization that whatever it is we think about or focus on consistently, we move towards. We are the product of our thoughts! Think, and you shall become, is a huge part of the manifestation of our destiny. As author Norman Vincent Peele emphasize in his book, The Power of Positive Thinking “Change your thoughts and change your world.” Not everyone believes in the fervent power of their thoughts. They brush it off while dwelling on the past or fearing the future, not quite understanding that the very things that they are thinking about, they are inching closer towards. And whether they believe it or not, it is happening. It’s kind of like the Law of Attraction, it’s happening the way it operates, whether one acknowledges it or not – it is affecting their life! And since this is the case, we must be intentional about channeling our thoughts to serve us. It does take practice and work, but it has been proven that it is totally possible, and the ultimate determinant of us achieving our goals and enjoying a high quality of life.

How to Channel Your Thinking

We are all creatures of habit! We have very set ways of doing things and have conditioned ourselves to think, feel and behave a certain way through years (and sometimes decades) of practice. It is this type of habitual thought patterns that can set the stage for an empowering and fulfilling life, or help to play a hand in our resultant downfall over time.

If you’re serious about achieving your goals and accomplishing anything worth noting in life, then you have to leverage the power of your thoughts by channeling your thinking. And this may require you to do some mindset shifting and institute a new way of doing things as far as your thoughts, to bring about the change you seek. If the same ole’ same ole’ is not cutting it and is actually hindering you from progressing, then it’s time for that change to take place. As Albert Einstein once said, “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” We cannot expect to think, feel and behave the same way but garner different results. We have to do what’s necessary to create that change that is required for us to get to that next level.

As long as you can channel your thinking into the right direction, you can quite literally manifest your dreams. So what does it mean to channel your thoughts? Channeling your thoughts mean that you practice being present so you can always be aware of your thoughts and redirect it to a place where it can serve you – if it was not bringing forth thoughts that serve you.

Here Are Five (5) Ways You Can Channel Your Thoughts So They Serve You

1. Set Meaningful (SMART) Goals

When we set goals that mean a lot to us and are so very profound, it allows us to keep them front and center of our mind and makes it easier to refocus our attention when our thoughts stray. We have something that means a lot to us and will not allow us to be distracted for long. When we set goals that truly mean something to us beyond things like money, fame and prestige, we are better able to leverage the power of our thoughts to achieve those meaningful goals. The less superficial, the better the goals. If you set superficial goals you will very easily lose sight of them.

2. Create & Follow a Detailed Plan to Get to Your Goals

We can help to guide our thoughts in the right direction when we follow detailed plans. Whatever it is that you want in life, as long as you do the proper amount of planning for it, you can achieve it over time. It just won’t happen overnight. But it’s the right plan that will take you from Point A to Point B. Without a very detailed plan, and disciplined execution of that plan, it’s highly unlikely you will ever get to that goal or get to that goal in the time you determine you would. Again, if your goal is not very meaningful to you, and has substance, you will be more easily distracted. If they mean a lot to you, your thoughts will be more focused on them, and easily channeled when strayed.

3. Put Past & Present Hurt/Setback In Their Proper perspective

Deal with what you have to deal with, because having things throw us off our center is a part of the journey here on earth. But do not dwell there! Stay there long enough to mourn, grieve, and experience that pain, then deduct the lesson(s) from that experience so you can use it to advance you forward. The power to achieve anything lies in your focus. The more you can focus your thoughts on something, the more likely you’ll be able to achieve it. If you focus your mind on the wrong things, then you’ll have a harder time achieving anything in life.

4. Constantly Seek Ways to Add Value to Your Life

We can harness our thoughts to achieve wild success when we’re constantly seeking ways to add value. Life shouldn’t always be about a direct return on investment from your time spent on things. You have to look at the long-term implications of doing things the right way – today, even if it takes a considerable amount of time for that to materialize into real results. If you are constantly seeking out ways to add value to your life, the chances of your thoughts dwelling on things that do not serve you, will be zero/nil.

5. Ensure Your Mind, Body & Spirit are Always Amply Fed

We are most functional when we are balanced! Have you ever noticed after you go for a walk, run, or complete an exercise routine how entirely sharp you feel? Or when you travel away on vacation and get back how much more focused you are? When your mind, body, and spirit is catered to, focus becomes more natural, and having those meaningful goals will ensure you stay on course with your detailed plan and see them through to fruition more timely. You will find that it demands less thought channeling when you live a balanced life.

The right thoughts directed in the right direction can be powerful. But the wrong thoughts directed in the wrong direction can be fatal. Empower yourself by utilizing these 5 ways to tap and channel your thoughts so that they can serve you.

With love, gratitude, and empowered attitude,