Last year I did the 28 Days to Reset, Recharge, Reposition & Reclaim Your Life workshop, and as part of the process I wrote a love letter to my future self which was very empowering. Well, guess what? I did it! I set out to make huge, impactful changes to my life and it worked. (If you’re not in on what I’m referring to go read my blog post, I Wrote a Love Letter to My Future Self (and You Should Too) which include my full Love Letter to Me, and then come back and share in my journey.)
Here is what happened since then:
Last October I finally packed and moved to Austria. I had been there quite a few times before and was really fascinated by the place and the people, and thought I had to move to this place. And to top it off, my best friend was living there! So, I had been planning my move to Austria for a while. I decided to rent a Condo in Vienna that was pretty close to my friends Condo. I wanted to make sure everything was ok and that I really wanted to remain in that particular area before purchasing one. So I moved to this beautiful Condo in Vienna and I’m very happy I did. (You’ll see why later.)
The interior is gorgeous!
Katherine’s Condo Vienna – Living/Kitchen Area
And what I really love about this place is my cozy corner where I go to read, reflect, and relax. It’s very quiet up there!
Katherine’s Condo Vienna – Special Cozy Space
My friend and her other friends took me to some of the coolest places around town and introduced me to some of the most influential peeps in Austria, which ended up opening a lot of doors for me. I secured a spot on the board of a very reputable organization, and as you might have imagined, that in and of itself has opened up the floodgate to a myriad of other opportunities.
And now it’s time for the big reveal. Drum roll please!
I met the most amazing man, and none of it would have been possible had I not moved to that area and immersed myself into a wonderful circle of people. He’s not living far from me, and so we do not have to wait days or even weeks to see each other. And most importantly, we do not have to rush to get married because of distance or anything else. We can take our time with getting to know each other, knowing the family more, and embracing the process leading up to marriage.
I took it even further! Yes, yes, yes! I went from being a blonde to a brunette for the first time in my life, and something magical happened. I met the love of my life! This is really crazy but I have to share. Harry has only dated blonde his entire life to this point, and since those relationships didn’t last, he decided to date brunettes for a change. That first brunette turns out to be me. Can you believe that? But I’m not even brunette, I’m a natural blonde. Yes, this is crazy! I was hesitant to reveal to him I was really a blonde, but after our 10th date which went really, really well I decided I did not want to jeopardize what was clearly turning into something by not revealing important information. I mean, withholding pertinent information is just as bad as lying. Needless to say, it was a shocker for him, but he decided to continue on with me. 9 months later we are still together and I couldn’t be more happy.
Image courtesy of Katherine & Harry
He’s fun, charming, romantic, adventurous, supportive, and such a wonderful person to be around all the time. He adores my family. I esteem his family. I love the life we are creating together and I’m excited about the love that is growing between us! We’re forming a solid friendship that will be super important for our lifetime partnership, that is the foundation and what’s missing from many relationships.
I didn’t realize one could love someone and not like them until my later years, but now I’m 100% sure it’s possible. All my friends who married their high school sweetheart are still together – through thick and thin, and they credit it to being true friends before lovers. So that’s what I’m working at building. I’ve never teamed up or partnered up with a friend before, it was always “love” or what I now see as lust.
Katherine & Harry Vienna – So in love!
We talk about marriage. We talk about children. We talk about money. We even talk about deal-breakers and other tough topics that some couples avoid having conversations about such as prenuptial agreement and other agreements as to who will do what in the event one of us become ill or incapacitated. (Oh, and for the record, I had a great time being a brunette but I’ve since returned to being a blonde and everything seems to be going just fine.)
I’m truly, truly happy! I’m living my best life, and you can too. You don’t have to try and keep up with the Joneses and the Kardashians, especially if you’re only doing that to appease others and influence what they think of you. Look deep inside of you, who you are, and work to create the lifestyle you genuinely desire – be it a modest lifestyle or extravagant. Design and live YOUR dream lifestyle, just the way you want it. Rid yourself of the people, things, and circumstances that hinder you, and take control of your life. Get out of your uncomfortable comfort zone, and make bold moves! Get out of debt, and stay out of debt. Empower yourself with Success Habits, and never stop investing in yourself.
I’m still writing my book. I’m still coaching and training with yours truly – My Blooming Biz International. Yes, I’m a Life Coach right here. And I’m also still engaging mentors to mentor me as I mentor others and continue to improve my skills, techniques, and gain new knowledge. I’ve only taken one trip to Italy with my potential life partner, and I’m confident we’ll be taking many more trips together. I’ve managed to remain debt free with excellent credit score while still enjoying a good standard of living and a high quality of life.
So what I didn’t accomplish all the things in my letter?! It’s ONE year! And you have to agree with me that I’ve accomplished a lot. I’m doing what I love, loving what I do, and living my dreams. And you know what I’m going to do now? I’m going to write another love letter to my future self, and this time it will be for 3 years.
What do you think of my progress? And will you be taking this Love Letter challenge? I dare you 🙂 Do share with me in the comment section. Can’t wait to hear from you.
Love & Light,
Katherine Goldman is a Cognitive Psychologist and Behavioral Mentor attaining her doctoral credentials from the University of Massachusetts Amherst. She has used her psychological training over the years to impact thousands of women and young adults, and have since added coaching to her repertoire of skills. Katherine recently joined our team as a Life Coach here at My Blooming Biz International where she is helping women overcome obstacles and reclaim their lives. When Katherine is not busy changing women’s lives, you can find her trekking to one of her favorite places around the globe, spending quality time with her family and friends, or in her kitchen cooking up a storm.
Wow! Katherine, none of that would have happened had you not made those bold moves. I’m thinking how many of us have not reached our full potential because we remain in our comfort zone. You’re giving me a lot to think about, and I can already feel myself making the switch in thinking differently about my life and the chances I take. There is no other way to live life to its fullest, except putting it all out there and just going for it.
Thanks for showing us how to do it…
…and a BIG, hearty C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S to you on all your accomplishments.
What do I think of your progress? You rock!!!
Janice, thank you for your kind words. Of course, I wasn’t always this bold, but when we keep doing the same old things and they keep not working, we have to change course at some point. And I gotta tell you, mentoring played a huge role in me being that bold woman today.
Yesssss! You are absolutely right. “There is no other way to live life to its fullest, except putting it all out there and just going for it.”
Thanks for your input, Janice!
OMG! Katherine Goldman, you’re doing the damn thang! So happy for you, and so proud of you for making such bold moves – both moving to Austria and converting to brunette. LOL! You are truly an empowered woman.
Congratulations on all your accomplishments!
BTW. Loving your space. Could definitely see myself cozying up in that cozy corner.
Yes, I am, Eugenie 🙂 Those were two bold moves indeed, and I’m so happy it’s paying off. Moving to Austria is the best move I’ve made, and I have to continue to be bold and intentional.
I’m sure you would enjoy this space, it’s a very cozy spot.
Thanks for your kind words 🙂
Way to go Katherine 🙂 You are such an inspiration! God knows I needed to hear this today. You are really showing us what it means to truly live our best lives. I allowed fear of the unknown to hold me back for so long in the past, but bit by bit I am learning to release fear and and just do it – whatever that “it” is. I enjoyed reading this post. Congratulations! And I wish you enormous success with your new, fine man 🙂 and everything else you’re pursuing. Thanks so much for sharing!
Happy to be an inspiration, Gillian 🙂 Go ahead release that fear, and free yourself to live. It’s the only way to really live your life to its fullest.
Thanks for your kind words!
C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S 🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥 I’m so very happy for you, Katherine! Continue following your heart, making bold moves, and living your best life.
Thank you Christine 🙂 I appreciate.
Wow! Wow! Wow! All of that in 1 year? That’s a blessing! You are blessed beyond measures, Katherine. Don’t ever doubt that! What are the odds that you would change your hair for the first time in your life and then meet the man of your dreams who prefer who you really are, but was improvising with who you temporarily became, and you both fell in love? God has to be in that.
Congratulations, and all the very best with your endeavors 🙂
Yesssss Desiree! All of this in 1 year. Now I’m getting ready to make the 3 year pledge, and I can’t wait to see what’s about to happen in the next 3 years. Have you taken the Love Letter challenge? If no, will you? I guarantee you won’t regret it. It can only help enhance your life 🙂
Thanks for your kind words!
Katherine you deserve every bit of what’s coming to you 🙂 and my dear friend, this is just the beginning. Congratulations on making bold moves, and reaping the rewards!
Aaaaw, thank you, Jennifer 🙂 So sweet of you to say that. I believe and I receive. Love and appreciate you so much! Blessings!!!
What an amazing story! Only it’s real. Congrats 😊💯
Thanks John 🙂 Appreciate!
My brother recommended I might like this website, and he was totally right. I’m so uplifted reading your story, Katherine, and it’s just confirmed that anything is possible. As long as we follow our hearts and take action, our reality can shift to the reality we want. This post truly made my day! Continue living your best life and we are here cheering you on 🙂